Wednesday, December 21, 2011

It's my Blogoversary


Today marks the one year anniversary of "Erin is Love" and it's truly been a labor of love. It's been my honor to share stories about my beloved friend, her adventures, achievements and our relationship over the years. This blog started from a place filled with much love but also sorrow and pain after the passing of Erin; when she died everything I cared about did too and when I state that nothing mattered I mean absolutely nothing. Stricken with grief I began writing nonstop and haven't stopped since; tribute articles to Erin were published by Savannah Morning News and Bark Magazine while poetry, children stories, etc were jotted in notebooks. Pouring my emotions onto paper helped to soothe the ache and offered hope while seemingly everything else failed me but life was still a daily struggle to survive until passion was found in the most unlikeliest of sources.

A few days before Christmas I sat in a local coffeeshop with my hat pulled down low in an attempt to hide the flowing tears from those in the holiday spirit; this was my first Xmas without Erin and I truly felt all alone in this world. The art of blogging was foreign to me but the lure of starting a tribute blog proved too strong thus I dove in head first and on that day "Erin is Love" was born. This blog was created to honor Erin and the many lifes she touched over the years; I've thrived to always be respectful as she deserves nothing less after what she did for so many. Every post about my friend brought us closer, filled me with immense pride, and helped to ease the grief that had taken its toll upon my life. My first blogging year has been rewarding on so many levels while exceeding my wildest dreams...Nothing makes me happier than to sing the praises of Erin and my little ole blog provided the platform for me to do just that while probably saving my life in the process.

Sharing treasured memories while freely expressing my emotions has brought sunshine into my world and much thanks goes to you...My fellow blogger and friend!! The support and positive feedback from folks who have experienced similar losses or gained inspiration from my years with Erin has been remarkable; it's a good feeling to know my words comfort those whom are suffering while others find our relationship anything but the normal dog/human bond. We all undergo setbacks in life and are presented with difficult circumstances but it's also an opportunity to grow as a person and I've certainly done that over the past year via "Erin is Love." My posts will continue for the foreseeable future as this journey is far from over and hopefully I can continue to entertain, inspire, and tug on the heart strings.Thanks to all for allowing me to unburden my heart and become a part of your blogging family...I'm eternally grateful for each and everyone of you!!

RIP Erin!! Daddy misses you very much!!

24 comments:

  1. Happy Blogoversary Erin and David. Erin is very much present in this blog and smiles and wags her tail when she is naughty :) I can picture her always while reading her stories, told so lovingly by you. Keep writing my friend, I too started writing after I lost my dad. I know how much writing and good friends who share our sorrows mean.God bless...

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  2. Erin will continue to be an inspiration to me and Dave. Thank you for sharing your most precious moments with your dear Erin. Happy Blogoversary! :-)

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  3. Happy Blogoversary. Erin will always be with us as long as she lives in your and our hearts. Cheers & Merry Christmas.

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  4. Happy Blogoversary....You have immortalized Erin...True that the dog is a man's best friend. Hugs.

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  5. Happy and blessed Blogoversary! Your stories about Erin are always warm and inspirational - a joy to read always. So glad the writing process has helped you to heal; and, you have made Erin famous and beloved by so many.
    Have a Merry Christmas, David!

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  6. Happy Blogoversary....You have shared immense love for Erin here,and she will always remain in our thoughts....God bless you and I wish you every happiness you deserve.

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  7. You have shared not only stories but emotions that are so real towards Erin....
    Happy Blogoversary David and a wonderful tribute to Erin

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  8. Happy Blogoversary, David. Erin's memories are certainly worth recording and you do them so well! ♥

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  9. Happy Blogoversary David. I am so glad that your blog has helped you, I love reading the stories you share and have come to know Erin through it. She is still touching lives through your words. Thank you for sharing her with us.

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  10. @Sulekkha Thank you very much for visiting on a regular basis and being a part of Erin's tale. Writing is good for healing a broken heart as you know too well and also good for making friends!! Blessings :)

    @Irene Glad you're along for this leg of the journey and I appreciate your input. My best to yourself and Dave!!

    @John Erin will never cease to be in my heart as long as it's beating!! Thanks for visiting!!

    @Janu Immortialized is a nice way to think of Erin though I never used that word before. Guess her name will live in some capacity through this blog and the internet. Take care my friend!!

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  11. @Martha Thank you!! I'm glad you enjoy the stories about Erin, that makes me happy to hear while inspiring me to continue writing!! Blessings :)

    @Alpana It's good to know that folks have embraced Erin's memory and have gotten to know her better..Too bad you didn't get a chance to meet her when alive. Thanks so much for your continued support!! :)

    @Savira My stories are always honest and emotionally charged albeit sometimes they're sad but that's what lies in my heart. Thanks for visiting!!

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  12. @Corinne Thanks for the kind words and it's good to know you think highly of my blog. Take care!!

    @Jan Writing has aided my recovery greatly and I recommend it to anyone looking for a way to heal a broken heart. Erin would be thrilled by the attention paid to her and I wish all could have met her while alive. Thanks for visiting!!

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  13. Happy Blogoversary. :) You have immortalized Erin with your beautiful stories about the memories you both shared. They aren't just treasured by you, but have made countless hearts warm with their nostalgic and cheerful glow. Erin is still touching people with the love and joy that she walked this earth with, and she does that through you. I've enjoyed coming to your blog and look forward to your future posts. :)

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  14. Congratulations on your blogiversary!!! I'm glad you are finding healing and empowerment through the creative expression of blogging. Blessings & Love!!!

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  15. Happy Blogoversary David. It has been a truly enriching journey for us too as we shared this journey with you through your words about Erin. She will live on in your words and heart as well as ours.



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  16. Jessica It's always been my intent to spread Erin's love to all who have open minds and hearts and I'm glad you're included in this group. The deceased can sometimes inspire the living through their stories and my angel certainly has that gift. Your visits and comments are much appreciated!! :)

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  17. @Linda Writing has been very beneficial in the healing process and this blog played a major part in my heart being mended. Doubt I will ever recover from Erin's death but least I'm able to function in life. Thanks for visiting and leaving afew words!!

    @Rimly I'm happy that you're here to share in this journey with me!! I always look forward to your commentand sweet words about Erin. Take care my friend!! :)

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  18. Hello David,
    This is such a lovely post, filled with your never-ending love for Erin. Even though she is no longer with you, her spirit & memory will live on in your heart and in this blog.

    Happy Blogoversary, my friend! May, you always find comfort, strength and inspiration from your thoughts of her. I wish you all the very best now & in the future.

    Thank you for sharing.

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  19. Happy blogversary....thank you so much for sharing Erin with us....As always...XOXOXOXO

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  20. Congratulations on your one-year blogoversary! Your inspirational stories of Erin have enlightened us all. I'm glad blogging has helped you in your journey of healing. All the best for the New Year and beyond!

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  21. @Andy Thank you for a lovely comment and the best to you in the upcoming year!! Erin will never fail to exist in my heart or this world since our love is eternal

    @Bonnie Thanks as always for your love and support!! ")

    @Rachel Thank you!!! :)

    @Adriene I'm grateful that my blogging family has embraced Erin's story and found some inspiration along the way. Take care my friend!!

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  22. Happy Blogoversary !!
    Merry Christmas David ... may this b the happiest of all !!

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  23. belated happy blogoversary..u have a great blog and erin is soooo beautiful..its so true a mans best friend is his dog,ppl might judge u,might not be loyal miight cheat u but dogs dont do that..morover their love is so unconditional they are these innocent little being..and when u have a dog they become a part of ur family..i lost my fluffy to old age 10months back and every single day i miss him and i think of him..nobody can ever fill the vaccum he left.i can understand ur pain and relate to it...wait for the day l be with him again..bless u..and wish u a great new years and to erin too i know shes sitting somewhere with angel chewing on a bone and watching over u:)i call fluffy my guardian angel..and am sure erin is urs:)

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